Check our the news for Asian and you will see that Asian countries China, India and Pakistan are right now badly effected by rains and floods. China and Pakistan has observed the all time worsr floods this year, whereas India observed flash floods in areas that is known for very less or no rainfalls (Rajasthan and Leh-Ladakh).
I am not sure if nature has starting taking revenge for the pollution that has been casued in so many years of development, but in last 10 years there has been a lot change in global climate and if serious steps are not taken by world economies they will have to pay a big price.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Relationships and Fights - How to Control fighting in a relation
Sometime it happens in a relatioship that you end up fighting with your boy friend, girl friend, husband or wife ever month, every week or in worse condition daily. Fighting is not good in any relation and can lead to a disastrous and unwanted break up. Below are few suggestions that me help many of the fighting couples in the world.
Never:
* Use bad language while fighting.
* Threaten to terminate your relationship, just for the sake of gaining an upper hand.
* Become judgmental about his character if it has nothing to do with the fight.
* Use force (hands, feet, vessels, mobile phones) to show power.
* Quote past experiences. Let bygones be bygones.
* React! Yes, reaction is an emotional process that could make the situation worse.
Always:
* Respond! A response is to find a solution to the problem. This can lead to creative handling of future problems.
* Fight when both of you are calm and composed.
* Fight in a place where you will not be disturbed. Make sure the kids or a third-party are not around.
* Make sure that if he begins what he has to say, you allow him to end it. DO NOT interrupt him.
* Remember to express what you are feeling at that exact same moment. Don’t hesitate to say it if you are feeling “sad”, rather than “angry” at that point of time.
Making up tips…
Post fighting, both of you need your space to settle your emotions and get back together. Here’s what you do:
* Doing something that is ‘not you’ can be bring relief to the tension in your fights. Surprise him, do something that you would usually never do. Get him flowers, candy, or say things to him that you would normally never say. (Nice things, of course!)
* Say sorry. If it was your fault and you know it, say sorry.
* Celebrate! Once a resolution has been reached, celebrate the occasion. A candle light dinner, good sex. In other words, be close to each other.
* Last but not the least, FORGET about the issues that caused hurt. Rather, concentrate on the solutions that you have come up with.
Never:
* Use bad language while fighting.
* Threaten to terminate your relationship, just for the sake of gaining an upper hand.
* Become judgmental about his character if it has nothing to do with the fight.
* Use force (hands, feet, vessels, mobile phones) to show power.
* Quote past experiences. Let bygones be bygones.
* React! Yes, reaction is an emotional process that could make the situation worse.
Always:
* Respond! A response is to find a solution to the problem. This can lead to creative handling of future problems.
* Fight when both of you are calm and composed.
* Fight in a place where you will not be disturbed. Make sure the kids or a third-party are not around.
* Make sure that if he begins what he has to say, you allow him to end it. DO NOT interrupt him.
* Remember to express what you are feeling at that exact same moment. Don’t hesitate to say it if you are feeling “sad”, rather than “angry” at that point of time.
Making up tips…
Post fighting, both of you need your space to settle your emotions and get back together. Here’s what you do:
* Doing something that is ‘not you’ can be bring relief to the tension in your fights. Surprise him, do something that you would usually never do. Get him flowers, candy, or say things to him that you would normally never say. (Nice things, of course!)
* Say sorry. If it was your fault and you know it, say sorry.
* Celebrate! Once a resolution has been reached, celebrate the occasion. A candle light dinner, good sex. In other words, be close to each other.
* Last but not the least, FORGET about the issues that caused hurt. Rather, concentrate on the solutions that you have come up with.
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Indians in Australia issue - Indians & Australians Are Idiotic
Found this blog post on the blog of an Australian. According to him Australians and Indians enjoy a frosty cold beer alongside a tasty hot curry and all start bashing on these idiots from both sides.
Read ull post here: http://www.squizz.com.au/2010/02/03/indians-australians-are-idiotic/
Read ull post here: http://www.squizz.com.au/2010/02/03/indians-australians-are-idiotic/
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